5/21/2010

33 Lessons Life Taught Me

Barcelona Cathedral



本文作者Regina Brett 是美國俄亥俄州克里夫蘭報紙 THE PLAIN DEALER 的專欄作 家。


01.人生不是公平的,但還是好的。
- Life isn't fair, but it's still good.


02.如果懷疑,只管邁出一小步。
- When in doubt, just take the next small step.


03.人生苦短, 短到來不及浪費時間去恨任何人。
- Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.


04.你没必要每次吵架都要贏 。不妨同意你們之間存有不同的意見
- You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


05.和過去和解,它就不會搗亂你的現在了。
- Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.


06.不要拿自己的人生和別人比較。你根本不知道別人的生活是怎樣過的
- Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.


07.一眨眼的功夫什麼都會變化,不過別擔心,上帝從來不眨 眼。
- Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.


08.深吸一口氣 ,會平靜你的心。
- Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.


09.把無用的、醜陋的、 令人不高興的東西通通扔掉
- Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.


10.殺不死你的肯定會使你變得更堅強
- Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.


11.再次享受童年永遠不嫌晚,但第二次只能靠自己,不能靠別 人。
- It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.


12.點上蠟燭,用最好的被單,穿上最好的睡衣,不要等到特殊 的場合才用。今天就是好日子。
- Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.


13.做充分的準備,然後順其自然
- Overprepare, then go with the flow.


14.現在就擺脫傳统 , 不要等到老了才敢穿紫色的衣服。
- Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.


15.遇到倒霉的事可以問自己這樣一句話:五年以後 , 這還重要嗎?”
-Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"


16.原諒每一個人每一件事。
- Forgive everyone everything.


17.別人怎麼想, 與你無關。
- What other people think of you is none of your business.


18.時間能癒合幾乎任何的傷口,但要給時間, 時間。
- Time heals almost everything. Give time time.


19.相信奇跡會出現。
- Believe in miracles


20.上帝愛你因為他是上帝,不是因為你做了什麼,或者沒做什 麼。
- God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.


21.不要總是回顧人生。現在就去盡量發揮。
- Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.


22.老朽總比早逝好。
- Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.


23.每天都出門,奇跡在四處等著你呢
- Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.


24.如果我們把問題都堆在一起,看完了別人的,我們會把自己 的撿回來。
- If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.


25.忌妒是浪費時間。你已經擁有你所需要的一
- Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.


26.最好的還在後頭。

- The best is yet to come.


27.不管你感覺如何,起床、盛裝、好好表現
- No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.


28.學會讓步
- Yield.


29.閱讀詩篇。它涵蓋了人類的每一種情感。
- Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.


30.人生苦短,何必長期悲哀。不過充實的生活,就奄奄一息。
- Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.


31.當追求你所熱愛的人生,不要接受否定的答案
- When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.


32.如果你不求, 你就得不着。
- If you don't ask, you don't get.


33.人生並沒有被繫上蝴蝶結,但它仍然是一份禮物。
- Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.


5/16/2010

!!姚伯伯拿手家常菜公開大分享!!


大家都知道,上海人對吃和穿的講究是齊來有名的。不僅顧好形於外的光鮮體面,對入於口的每一美酒佳餚更是馬乎不得、考究萬分。

老爸也不例外,更是身體力行之!

年輕時,坐在冷氣辦公室裡還想著自個兒開的上海點心館,因不希望我們都變成了國賓飯店前沒人管的野孩子,就草草收攤了!

等孩子們大些,他利用午休和下班時間由司機接送到‘良式西餐廳‘,和廚子們搓磨西式餐點的烹培巧妙和各式美食的藝術。但又因不願錯失與孩子們共成長的時光,就決定將這藝術帶回家與家人獨享囉!記得時有好吃的大蒜麵包、瑞士卷、烤牛排、通心麵、咖哩餃...You Name it!!

退休後,更是長途跋涉隻身到紐約長島總管高擋的中國美食餐館,直到爾過七十才決定搬回加州,替小女兒親自下廚辦個十全十美的滿月酒。

在上個安息日會後聚餐,大夥品嘗到老爸的拿手菜之一 ﹣四喜烤伕。我是天天吃長長灌,真得一點也不希奇,不過大夥很捧場一掃而空,很多人問也想知道其中的食材和決竅,就在此野人暴曬啦....

本著基督徒的精神,好東西當然要與好朋友共分享嘍!

(說實在,我自個也都還沒學會呢!吃現成的就好了)




▧ 材料 ▨
  • 烤伕一包
  • 金針菇
  • 香菇
  • 木耳

▧ 作法 ▨
  • 將烤伕撕小塊用開水和蘇打水(Baking Soda)浸泡一會兒,過清水用力擠乾
  • 將金針菇、香菇、木耳切塊泡軟
  • 濾乾後的烤伕用油炒透(多加些油,因烤伕很吸油的)
  • 炸好的烤伕加金針菇、香菇、木耳和醬油同煮
  • 待滾開後,即改小火煮約一小時即可 (若汁不夠可再加開水)

爾後,我會將老爸的拿手私房菜一個一個登在教會的部落格與弟兄姐妹分享。

Stay Tuned!!

5/08/2010

Mother's Day

Event: Mother's Day

Date: 五月八日 (星期六)





A Mother is there when things go wrong.
A hug and a kiss to help us along.
Always there when we need her near.
Gently wipes our eyes when we shed a tear.

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5/06/2010

Church Annual Picnic

Church Annual Picnic






Event:
本堂年度野餐

Place: 桑尼維 Serra Park

Address: 739 the Dalles Ave, Sunnyvale CA

Date: 六月六日 (星期日)

Time: 10am - 1:30pm

May Seminar

Event: 教會增長研習會




Topic:

「溫馨友善的教會」
以身為復臨信徒為榮

Speaker: 徐滿環 & 黃湘雲 & 周文龍

Place: South Bay Chinese SDA Church

Date: May 15, 2010

Time: 1:30 - 3:00 p.m.

歡迎大家一起來討論